Silver-tone round pendant engraved with a dog portrait and the name Elphie

Ashes, Fur, or a Photo: How to Choose a Pet Memorial Necklace

A pet memorial necklace can hold a small pinch of ashes, a little fur, or simply carry a photo portrait or name. There is no right choice for everyone. Start with what you would feel comfortable wearing and preparing.

Three questions to help you choose

Would you feel comfortable handling ashes?

If yes, an urn necklace for pet ashes may suit you. If you would rather leave the ashes where they are, you could choose a fur keepsake, a photo portrait, or a name instead. You can also take more time before deciding.

Would you like to see what is inside?

The small round urn pendant has a clear glass window, while the larger glass locket is clear on both sides. If you prefer a portrait or words on the outside, consider the photo urn pendant, cylinder, or four-sided bar.

Do you have a photo you would like to use?

For a photo piece, choose a bright, sharp picture with the whole face and ears visible. If you do not have one you want to use, a name can be your starting point.

If you want to keep a small pinch of ashes

These five urn necklaces each hold a small, symbolic amount of ashes. The main choice is what you would like the pendant to show.

Silver-tone round pendant engraved with a dog portrait and the name Elphie
Catalog image showing the round photo urn pendant, with the portrait on the front.

Each of these is a necklace you fill yourself, at home, whenever you are ready. That is different from jewelry made by sending ashes away to be set into glass or resin.

Each style opens a little differently, and the bar needs a small flathead screwdriver, which is not included. Our guide to filling an urn necklace shows every opening, step by step.

If you would rather keep a little fur

If you have kept a few strands of fur, a pet fur keepsake can hold those instead. These four styles can hold a little fur:

Two small round urn pendants with glass windows, one holding a pinch of ashes and one holding a few strands of fur
Catalog illustration comparing ashes and fur in the small glass-window pendant.

If you prefer a photo or name without ashes

Memorial jewelry without ashes may suit you if you want to remember their face or the name you called every day.

Gold-tone round disc engraved with a dog portrait and the name Lola, resting on beige fabric
Catalog image of a photo portrait necklace personalized with the name Lola.

Choosing for someone else

If this is for a family member or friend and you are not sure how they feel about ashes, a photo or name piece is a gentle choice. The Pet Loss & Sympathy Gifts collection brings these choices together.

Caring for an urn necklace

Keep it away from water: take it off before showering, swimming, washing your hands, or exercising, and store it somewhere dry. Keep it away from perfume and cleaning products, too.

When you are ready to compare the pieces, you can find them in the Pet Memorial jewelry collection. There is no need to choose before you feel ready.

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